Three months dating
After two months, I invited him on a preplanned trip with friends, but he declined.After the trip, his text messages became shorter and the phone calls stopped.I asked him for a picture, and he sent me a video clip of him as a police officer where two of his friends shocked him with a taser gun because they thought it was funny. ” -Amy W., 39Expert take: Men and women find different things attractive and look for different things in profiles.“He probably thought the video was cool, that he looked like a tough guy, and that Amy would see it the same way,” Davis says.Her take: “While out with friends, I met a guy who lived 100 miles away.
“The weekend didn’t live up to your expectations—but what really happened is that this guy didn’t live up to the expectations that you had created over the prior few months,” says Lissa Coffey, relationship expert and author of Her take: “I used a dating site a few years ago and was linked up with someone that didn't have a photo on his profile.You’re left wondering what went wrong and analyzing (and reanalyzing and reanalyzing) things with your friends. While we’ll never be able to fully understand guys (and we probably wouldn’t want to), you can learn from these moments.